IT guy, work in development and implementation of Efaxing software
TURN OFF'S
Passive aggression,
saying "you're too old to cosplay," "that's skirt is too short" (directed at my wife) or guys who try to feel girls up without knowing them.
TURN ON'S
Finding new toys for my wife, Toys usually being women. Intelligence, being honest, even when its not in your best interest. Doing things for others. Folks who make Cons work.
It's been good! Wedding is really soon and I'm incredibly excited! Not very many last minute rushing things to do for it. Pretty much ready and waiting for the big day ^_^
Sorry, it's all I ever tlak about these days...that and my Soul Eater and Stargate addictions ^_^